Well guys...this was a weekend of first for our little man!! (and his parents too!) First time out to actual dinner with mom and dad, first day trip, first daddy babysitting, first Redland's Bike Classic, and first Gourmet Pizza experience! And now, after a long weekend, Car (something I have started calling him) is home, happy and exhausted!


So....Friday, we took him out to dinner with us, and he didn't make a peep the whole time...just snoozed in his lazy boy, a.k.a. his carseat :)
Saturday, he took his first day trip to Palm Springs for our friend Brian's 30th birthday. He was pretty good, as long as he got to be a part of all the action! And it was nice to be able to hang out with our friends for awhile, and for Carter to get to hang around them too :). But man do you have to pack ALOT of stuff for a short day trip for a little 6 pound man! I need an extra bag just for the diapers!
He wore his "tux" for the big day.....


Now we come to Sunday....I was going to a baby shower and Matt was going to do his first real babysitting!! This morning Matt was telling me the plans he had for them to do. Inside I was laughing and thinking, he has NO CLUE how difficult it is going to be to take him to do that. Now Carter and I have had a few outings together, just the 2 of us. Everytime I try to take him somewhere alone it seems like we have some sort of disaster, peeing through clothes multiple times, bloody murder screaming, spontaneous bouts of hunger out of the norm, needing to pull over numerous times! (After today,I am beginning to think that I am the problem!!)
So, I go to leave for the shower, and I say to Matt "good luuuuuuck", snickering inside. This weekend was the Redland's Bike Classic (a huge bike race people come to from all over the world). Matt decides he is going to take Carter to watch the race. First of all, he puts Carter in the jogger like a big boy , WITHOUT his "lazy boy". This is something I have been too afraid to do, but would make my life ALOT easier. They end up walking VERY VERY FAR, and UPHILL. Sure enough...not a peep from little man! They proceed to watch the race with our friends, with no fussing. He drank a bottle I had pumped and was happy as a clam. This is when I got there and was literally in shock there had been no mishaps! Then, everyone heads downtown to the vendors and to watch the end of the race. We did too...and without ANY problems...not a peep! After that, we head to Gourmet Pizza Shoppe (Carter had another bottle on the way). We sat and had a pizza, with Carter just hanging out...no fussing...no whimpering...nothing! I will say that once we got to the car we did get some crying...I think he had had enough! All that to say, if I would have tried to do all of this, it would have been a completely different story! Matt is a pretty dang good babysitter, and of course, dad! :)
The boys before their trip..........

And the boys after......

And so I have realized something after this weekend...I AM PARANOID...I don't want to be, but I just am. What can I say, I am my mother's child! Matt doesn't call her "paranoid Pat" for nothing! I worry about taking him to the grocery store...because what happens if he needs his diaper changed or starts to scream, and not to mention, how will I carry everything?? I worry about pretty much going anywhere because of these things, and I think Carter can sense that! This week I want to go to Old Navy, and I am going to go with a new attitude....like a calm, cool, no worries kind of mom........well I am at least going to try! :)